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Jill Hart's avatar

I love that you put yourself out there and shared that with me. I'm a 5/1 generator with a pises sun sign and a moon in aquarious. I've always been called bossy - at one point my husband making a joke (he thought) said you're not bossy you're just overly helpful - that reframe changed a lot for me in life. It allowed me to go from denying myself to embracing the qualities I'm here to share.

Niki Bowen's avatar

I love that reframe! And that’s wonderful that you have a partner who not only accepts who you are but shows you the positivity

Amy Nabors's avatar

I found myself coming back to your distinction between quiet and soft. We often assume quiet means small or passive, but your piece reminded me that quiet can also be spacious.

The kind of quiet that makes room for another person without asking them to become less.

Thank you for this thoughtful reflection.

Niki Bowen's avatar

That’s beautifully put! I’m glad you got it because it’s a difficult energy to articulate